Are You the MVP or the Benchwarmer in Your Relationship...
Take the Quiz to Reveal Your Relationship Leadership Style-And Get a Personalized Game Plan for Real Connection
You don't need a partner to start. You don't need hours of emotional labor. And you don't have to be perfect to lead your love life-just willing to show up with strategy.
"But I'm single-will this even work for me?"
-You don't need to be in a relationship to succeed with the Coaching Your Love Life™ System. This system can also prepare you for meaningful connection.
"I've already done therapy /self-work-why
would this be different?"
-Therapy helps you heal. This helps you lead.
Coaching Your Love Life™ isn't about revisiting your past-it's about applying strategy to your present.
This is where insight becomes action, and where emotional intelligence finally gets direction.
"What if I put in the effort and they still don't change?"
-That's the beauty of leading your own love life-you stop waiting for someone else to shift first.
This system puts the power back in your hands. Whether they rise with you or fall away, you'll have the clarity, language, and confidence to navigate love without losing yourself.
"I don't want to be too 'in my head' about love-I just want to 'go with the flow.'
-When you have the right structure, love actually feels more natural-you feel in the flow.
Coaching Your Love Life™ gives you a rhythm, not rules. It helps you stop overthinking and start flowing-with tools that make connection easier, not harder.
"I Keep Showing Up Giving my Best, Trying to Be the MVP...But it Still Feels Like I'm Warming the Bench."
You keep thinking love should "just happen" if it's right-but deep down, you're tired of guessing and hoping it clicks. What you're missing isn't worthiness-it's a system that makes love feel clear, not chaotic.
You're Putting in the Effort in Love. What You're Missing is the Game Plan.
You've done the work, tried to stay patient, and maybe even held relationships together longer than you should've-yet love still isn't working for you.
It's not because you're broken. It's because no one ever taught you how to lead in love with strategy, not just emotion.
You always knew love required more than just feelings- you just didn't have the framework to back it up.
Coaching Your Love Life™ gives you the clarity, tools, and emotional structure your love life has always needed.
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The Story Behind Coaching Your Love Life™
Hi, I’m Kim Jones, and I didn’t create Coaching Your Love Life™ because I always had love figured out—I created it because I
didn’t.
I was doing everything “right”—showing up, being understanding, giving my best, compromising, reading the books, going to therapy, putting in the WORK… but love still felt like a struggle. Not because I didn’t care. But because no one ever taught me how to love with structure. No one gave me a way to actually lead in love without losing it (!), or without losing myself.
What hurt most wasn’t the breakups—it was how hard I tried to make love work, and how little I understood what to do when it didn’t. (Can you relate?)
I kept feeling like the MVP of a team that wasn’t even playing back.
And that’s when I realized: love doesn’t just need more effort; It needs strategy.
That’s what gave birth to Coaching Your Love Life™—a system that blends emotional intelligence, clear communication, and team-based relationship leadership so you can finally stop guessing and start building something real.
It’s not therapy. It’s not theory. It’s a repeatable method that helps you show up with clarity, communicate without chaos, and create relationships that feel safe, soft, and sustainable.
Because when you start coaching your love life like it matters, everything shifts.
You don’t just love differently—you live differently. You get your time back. Your peace back. Your voice back. And you stop over-functioning in relationships that aren’t aligned.
You become the coach, the teammate, and the MVP.
And that changes everything.
You've been giving MVP energy to people who didn't even show up to practice.
This chart shows what most people are quietly experiencing in their love life:
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80% of the energy is being poured out
—trying to communicate, fix things, be patient, forgive, plan, and hold the relationship together.
•
But only..
20% comes back
in the form of consistency, clarity, emotional safety, or mutual effort.
The result?
You feel like the MVP… of a team that isn’t even playing back.
The energy lost due to a lack of balance that most people are quietly experiencing in their love life:
•80% of the energy is being poured out—trying to communicate, fix things, be patient, forgive, plan, and hold the relationship together.
•But only 20% comes back in the form of consistency, clarity, emotional safety, or mutual effort.
The result? You feel like the MVP… of a team that isn’t even playing back.
Now it's time to take that energy and put it into a relationship that feels like a real team-and a real WIN.
ARE YOU GIVING AWAY EMOTIONAL LABOR WITHOUT A PAYOUT?
Bottomless Emotional Labor
Results in Love Lost.
If you’ve ever looked back at a relationship and wondered,
“How did I waste so much time?”
—you’re not alone.
This graph shows the silent truth behind why so many smart, self-aware people feel stuck in love:
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40% of time gets spent in relationships that were never aligned
—because we try to force connection instead of coaching it.
•
35% of time is spent staying too long after it’s over,
hoping something changes while slowly losing pieces of ourselves.
•
25% of time is lost avoiding love altogether
—because fear, burnout, or confusion make it feel safer to stay alone.
That’s emotional labor with no return.
Love without leadership.
And that’s exactly what the
Coaching Your Love Life™ System
helps you stop.
When you use a relationship framework that teaches you how to communicate clearly, coach your connection, and lead with soft power—
You stop wasting time on what doesn’t work, and
you start building something that actually lasts.
The Coaching Your Love Life™ System WORKS!!
This is a PROVEN SYSTEM with EXCELLENT RESULTS!
Before vs. After Coaching Your Love Life™
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Before Coaching Your Love Life™:
Love felt like work, waiting, or worrying. You poured your energy into people who weren’t aligned, stayed too long, or avoided it altogether because it felt too confusing to try again.
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After Coaching Your Love Life™:
You’re clear, confident, and connected. You don’t waste time on the wrong relationships or overfunction to hold things together. You coach your love life with intention—and it pays you back in peace, presence, and partnership.
IS THERE A TIME-CLOCK ON LOVE?
THE BENEFITS OF OUR SYSTEM
Finally -a Proven Framework That Teaches You How to Coach, Communicate, and Connect Your Love Life- Without Losing Yourself in the Process.
The Coaching Your Love Life™ system blends emotional intelligence, soft power communication, and team-based relationship strategy-so you can stop over-functioning and start creating real connection that lasts.
IMAGINE LEADING YOUR LOVE LIFE WITH CLARITY, CALM, AND CONFIDENCE-Because You Finally Have the System to Make It Work.
You've always known love should feel like a partnership-but no one ever showed you how to build one, only how to survive inside of one.
Learn to lead your love life without losing yourself.
Set the tone for emotional safety and real connection
Communicate clearly-even in tough conversations
Use Soft Power Scripts to express needs without conflict
Navigate conflict without over-explaining or shutting down
Build trust and consistency through MVP habits
Shift from over-functioning to shared effort
Stop guessing and start using a proven relationship playbook
COACHING YOUR LOVE LIFE™
Workbooks
Proven Scripts
Workflow
LOVE WORKS BETTER WHEN YOU LEAD LIKE A TEAM.
THE COACHING YOUR LOVE LIFE™ FRAMEWORK MAKES IT EASY TO COMMUNICATE, CONNECT, AND LEAD WITH EMOTIONAL CLARITY
WITHOUT OVERTHINKING, OVERGIVING, OR OVERWORKING YOUR HEART.
BUILD A LOVE LIFE ROOTED IN MUTUAL RESPECT, NOT EMOTIONAL GUESSWORK.
LEARN HOW TO SHOW UP FOR LOVE WITHOUT SHRINKING, CHASING, OR SETTLING.
RECOGNIZE PATTERNS EARLY-BEFORE THEY BECOME PROBLEMS.
CREATE EMOTIONAL SAFETY-FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR PARTNER-WITHOUT LOSING YOUR SOFTNESS.
FEEL CONFIDENT NAVIGATING LOVE, WHEN WHEN THINGS GET MESSY.
SHIFT FROM SURVIVAL MODE TO ALIGNED, INTENTIONAL CONNECTION.
GAIN CLARITY ON WHETHER TO STAY, GROW, OR LET GO.
RECLAIM YOUR PEACE, POWER, AND VOICE IN HOW LOVE SHOWS UP IN YOUR LIFE.
STOP SITTING ON THE SIDELINES AND START LEADING IN LOVE
LIKE A TRUE MVP.
YOU NEED A SYSTEM THAT MAKES LOVE FEEL LIKE A TEAM SPORT-WITH STRUCTURE, STRATEGY, AND SPACE FOR YOUR HEART.
THE LOCKER ROOM: WHAT'S INSIDE
Module 1: Lead with Love – The Coach’s Mindset
• How to think like a coach in your own love life
• Why emotional leadership is your biggest love skill
• The balance between soft power and clear direction
Module # & Name for each Module
Then, for each module - have 2 sentences around the module, the promises and benefits
Then, each lesson name and 3 fascination bullets for each of the lessons
Do this for all modules, and lessons.
Module 2: The Team Mentality – Building Relationships Like a Winning Team
• Understanding “you + me = we”
• Defining your relationship’s identity and shared goals
• How to support without self-sacrificing
Module 3: The MVP You – Showing Up as the Most Valuable Partner
• Daily and weekly habits that build trust and consistency
• What makes a true MVP in modern love
• Reflection prompts to assess your relational effort and presence
Module 4: Communication Playbook – How to Speak with Soft Power
• Saying what you mean without guilt or fear
• Scripts and phrases that deepen connection
• Navigating hard conversations with emotional clarity
Module 5: Repair + Reconnect – Tools for Real-World Relationship Challenges
• What to do after conflict, silence, or disconnection
• How to own your impact while still honoring your needs
• Reset rituals and reconnection tools that bring you back together
Module 6: The Relationship Check-In System
• How to assess the health of your relationship regularly
• Partnership goal-setting, feedback flow, and alignment sessions
• Stay emotionally in-sync without the awkward “we need to talk”
BONUS SECTIONS INCLUDED:
• The Love Leadership Self-Assessment
• Soft Power Script Starters
• MVP Reflection Journal Prompts
• “Say This Instead” Cheat Sheet
• The Love Leadership Guarantee Tracker
Module 1: Lead with Love – The Coach’s Mindset
• How to think like a coach in your own love life
• Why emotional leadership is your biggest love skill
• The balance between soft power and clear direction
Module # & Name for each Module
Then, for each module - have 2 sentences around the module, the promises and benefits
Then, each lesson name and 3 fascination bullets for each of the lessons
Do this for all modules, and lessons.
Module 1: Lead with Love – The Coach’s Mindset
• How to think like a coach in your own love life
• Why emotional leadership is your biggest love skill
• The balance between soft power and clear direction
Module # & Name for each Module
Then, for each module - have 2 sentences around the module, the promises and benefits
Then, each lesson name and 3 fascination bullets for each of the lessons
Do this for all modules, and lessons.
Module 2: The Team Mentality – Building Relationships Like a Winning Team
• Understanding “you + me = we”
• Defining your relationship’s identity and shared goals
• How to support without self-sacrificing
Module 3: The MVP You – Showing Up as the Most Valuable Partner
• Daily and weekly habits that build trust and consistency
• What makes a true MVP in modern love
• Reflection prompts to assess your relational effort and presence
Module 4: Communication Playbook – How to Speak with Soft Power
• Saying what you mean without guilt or fear
• Scripts and phrases that deepen connection
• Navigating hard conversations with emotional clarity
Module 5: Repair + Reconnect – Tools for Real-World Relationship Challenges
• What to do after conflict, silence, or disconnection
• How to own your impact while still honoring your needs
• Reset rituals and reconnection tools that bring you back together
Module 6: The Relationship Check-In System
• How to assess the health of your relationship regularly
• Partnership goal-setting, feedback flow, and alignment sessions
• Stay emotionally in-sync without the awkward “we need to talk”
BONUS SECTIONS INCLUDED:
• The Love Leadership Self-Assessment
• Soft Power Script Starters
• MVP Reflection Journal Prompts
• “Say This Instead” Cheat Sheet
• The Love Leadership Guarantee Tracker
EXTRAS TO ELEVATE YOUR LOVE GAME
Love Locker Room: Daily Support & Reset Prompts
Start or reset your day with powerful coaching-style prompts that help you check-in with your emotions, clarify your intentions, and reconnect with your relationship goals. This Love Locker Room is your personal warm-up zone to keep your love life focused, flexible, and fully aligned.
Value: $399
Let's Go Love™ Workbook
How to uplift your relationship like a true cheerleader-offering encouragement, emotional safety, and team spirit without losing yourself.
$75
Coaching Your Life™ Soft Scripts
Express your needs, set the tone, and protect your peace-without ever sounding harsh or defensive.
Value: $199
The Rookie Playbook
Master the Basics Before You Fumble Love.
Value: $60
GET THE ENTIRE SYSTEM!!!
$99*
*for a limited time
We guarantee that Coaching Your Love Life™ will give you the tools to finally feel secure, seen, and successful in love
Whether you’re dating or deep in a relationship. If you don’t feel more confident, connected, and in control within 30 days, we’ll make it right..
Finally—A Proven Relationship Framework That Helps You Feel Secure, Heard, and Loved Without Losing Yourself.
JOIN TODAY AND GET:
The Full Coaching Your Love Life™ Framework (140 pages)
The Soft Power Scripts PDF
Real Talk, Real Love Audio + Video Companion
The MVP Love Reflection Journal
BONUS: Manifesting Love Like a Pro Workbook + Guided Meditation
Total Value: $1999
TODAY:
$99
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ONLY A LIMITED NUMBER OF SPOTS ARE OPEN FOR THE LAUCH OF COACHING YOUR LOVE LIFE™ SYSTEM
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This IS for you if:
You're ready to feel emotionally safe, heard, and respected in your love life-with tools that help you protect your peace and your heart.
You're done with confusion and chaos in dating, and you're ready to create lasting connection through clarity, communication, and self-trust.
You want real tools and a proven framework to hep you show up as both a confident leader and a caring teammate in your relationships.
This ISN'T
for you if:
YOU'RE NOT READY TO COMMIT TO GROWTH AND EMOTIONAL SAFETY IN YOUR LOVE LIFE.
YOU'RE EXPECTING A "QUICK FIX" AND AREN'T WILLING TO PUT IN THE WORK FOR LASTING CHANGE.
YOU PREFER THE "OLD SCHOOL" WAY OF DATING-PLAYING GAMES, GHOSTING, AND UNNECESSARY DRAMA.
Frequently Asked Questions
“Is this program only for people already in a relationship?”
Not at all. Coaching Your Love Life™ is designed for anyone who wants to develop stronger emotional skills in love—whether you’re single, dating, or in a committed relationship. You’ll learn how to show up as a leader and teammate in love, no matter what stage you’re in.
“What if I’ve already tried therapy, books, or other relationship programs?”
This isn’t just advice—it’s a playbook. Coaching Your Love Life™ gives you real tools, scripts, and a system built around emotional teamwork, so you’re not just learning—you’re applying. If you’ve felt like other solutions missed the “how,” this framework was built to close that gap.
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Disclaimer: Coaching Your Love Life™ offers tools, frameworks, and guided reflection based on proven emotional wellness and relationship-building strategies. While many participants experience transformation in how they date, connect, and communicate, results may vary based on individual effort, personal history, and relationship dynamics. This program is educational in nature and not a substitute for therapy, counseling, or professional mental health services.